I used to play racquetball with this guy. He was much, much better than me, and would use me as an opportunity to practice various shots.
I remember one game where all he did was bank shots. Meaning that instead of aiming for the front wall, he would always hit the ball off either the side wall or the ceiling.
Which had me running around like an idiot, since I never really knew where the ball was going to go.
Of course, he could only get away with this because he was a few levels higher than me. If he'd played somebody as good as him, only using a bank shot would be fatal. The other guy would be using kill shot after kill shot.
When talking to girls, most guys ONLY use the bank shot, and never the straight shot.
What the heck am I talking about?
Guy meets girl. Guy likes girl. Guy wants girl to like him. Guy does stuff hoping it will get the girl to like him.
Here's where the bank shot comes in.
Most guys do things that's not really in their everyday nature. Stuff like bringing flowers (when they don't bring their buddies flowers), going out to nice restaurants (when they NEVER go to nice restaurants on their own), and speaking in kind and polite language (when they normally curse like sailors around their buddies).
In other words, they do something they don't normally do, hoping these "things" will generate feelings in her, and then the feelings for those "things" will somehow get attached to the guy.
Kind of a roundabout way of doing things.
Why not go straight for the kill shot? (OK, maybe a bad metaphor, lol).
Instead of doing something that you hope will elicit those emotions, which rarely works and is usually pretty expensive, why not just go straight for those feelings?
Instead of jumping through all kinds of hoops, and hoping to get a good result, why not go straight to the source?
The source, of course, is her.
Instead of going through an elaborate set of "rituals" designed to hopefully spark some attraction, just talk to her, and find out what makes her attracted.
Talk to her and elicit those emotions you're shooting for anyway. Since she's talking to you, when thinking of those emotions, she'll naturally associate them with you.
It doesn't matter where you are, what you're wearing, or how much money you're spending.
You can even do it over the phone, if that's your thing.
With the right set of language tools, creating those feelings in her is just a simple conversation away.
I remember one game where all he did was bank shots. Meaning that instead of aiming for the front wall, he would always hit the ball off either the side wall or the ceiling.
Which had me running around like an idiot, since I never really knew where the ball was going to go.
Of course, he could only get away with this because he was a few levels higher than me. If he'd played somebody as good as him, only using a bank shot would be fatal. The other guy would be using kill shot after kill shot.
When talking to girls, most guys ONLY use the bank shot, and never the straight shot.
What the heck am I talking about?
Guy meets girl. Guy likes girl. Guy wants girl to like him. Guy does stuff hoping it will get the girl to like him.
Here's where the bank shot comes in.
Most guys do things that's not really in their everyday nature. Stuff like bringing flowers (when they don't bring their buddies flowers), going out to nice restaurants (when they NEVER go to nice restaurants on their own), and speaking in kind and polite language (when they normally curse like sailors around their buddies).
In other words, they do something they don't normally do, hoping these "things" will generate feelings in her, and then the feelings for those "things" will somehow get attached to the guy.
Kind of a roundabout way of doing things.
Why not go straight for the kill shot? (OK, maybe a bad metaphor, lol).
Instead of doing something that you hope will elicit those emotions, which rarely works and is usually pretty expensive, why not just go straight for those feelings?
Instead of jumping through all kinds of hoops, and hoping to get a good result, why not go straight to the source?
The source, of course, is her.
Instead of going through an elaborate set of "rituals" designed to hopefully spark some attraction, just talk to her, and find out what makes her attracted.
Talk to her and elicit those emotions you're shooting for anyway. Since she's talking to you, when thinking of those emotions, she'll naturally associate them with you.
It doesn't matter where you are, what you're wearing, or how much money you're spending.
You can even do it over the phone, if that's your thing.
With the right set of language tools, creating those feelings in her is just a simple conversation away.
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