Relationship- breaking up guidance

Friday, 5 December 2014

Is their an easy way to break up, and if yes, how to do it?

The answer is yes and no, read on to find the truth and nothing but the truth.

It all depends on you and the relationship you created with the other person.

What does this mean?

It means that, when you first started dating did you build a relationship on friendship or your mind was on going to bed with the person?

This plays a part on how you break up, for if you got involve for sex it will be difficult and the person will not be willing to talk or understand what the reasons why you are both breaking up.

When I said yes and no to the question about breaking up, it mean that breaking up will hurt because if you did build a relationship of friendship, you will also be losing a friend
that you trusted, that you love and respected.

It is possible to rekindle a relationship after you break up if the friendship was strong and it would ask both of you a period of separation so grieving can take place.

What do you say?

In breaking up, you would need to show moments, dates, situation what was happening that did not work out especially if the person is more logical, they need a hands on approach, they need proof.

For the person that is more feeling or sensitive, talking to them about realizing that you come to a place in your relationship that you feel something had to change because the love was no longer flowing and that you realize that staying in a relationship with your partner was doing both of you a disservice because you realize that you both deserve to be happy and that it hurts you just as much because you thought it would last.


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